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the star
ALL IS WELL
THE STAR INVITES YOU TO REST AND HEAL. SHE IS A GLIMMER OF HOPE, A LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS, A COMPASS TO RIGHT YOUR COURSE, AND ASSISTANCE WHEN YOU NEED IT MOST. SHE IS A GLOWING REMINDER FROM THE UNIVERSE THAT EVERYTHING IS IN ORDER AND OCCURS IN ITS OWN TIME. YOU ARE ENTERING A STAGE OF CALM, SO USE IT WISELY TO IDENTIFY (AND COMMITT TO) WHAT'S IMPORTANT, FOR THE STAR IS A CARD OF POSSIBILITIES AND POTENTIAL FUTURES. SHE WILL GUIDE YOU, EVEN WHEN YOU FALTER, BUT YOU MUST KEEP YOUR EYE ON HER LIGHT.
A TIME OF HEALING, HOPE, UNEXPECTED GUIDANCE, RECONCILIATION BETWEEN THE PAST AND PRESENT, A VERY PROMISING POTENTIAL, THE NEED FOR PERSISTANT FOCUS.
ALL IS WELL
THE STAR INVITES YOU TO REST AND HEAL. SHE IS A GLIMMER OF HOPE, A LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS, A COMPASS TO RIGHT YOUR COURSE, AND ASSISTANCE WHEN YOU NEED IT MOST. SHE IS A GLOWING REMINDER FROM THE UNIVERSE THAT EVERYTHING IS IN ORDER AND OCCURS IN ITS OWN TIME. YOU ARE ENTERING A STAGE OF CALM, SO USE IT WISELY TO IDENTIFY (AND COMMITT TO) WHAT'S IMPORTANT, FOR THE STAR IS A CARD OF POSSIBILITIES AND POTENTIAL FUTURES. SHE WILL GUIDE YOU, EVEN WHEN YOU FALTER, BUT YOU MUST KEEP YOUR EYE ON HER LIGHT.
A TIME OF HEALING, HOPE, UNEXPECTED GUIDANCE, RECONCILIATION BETWEEN THE PAST AND PRESENT, A VERY PROMISING POTENTIAL, THE NEED FOR PERSISTANT FOCUS.
parents
Xavier Cobbs / father / died in 2018, pancreatic cancer / former pastor
Patricia Cobbs / mother / died in 2014, car accident / former 3rd grade teacher
other notible family
xavier cobbs (sr) & atashae cobbs - paternal grandparents
dwayne robin & etta robin - maternal grandparents
vincent, paula, ossie, Mekhi - paternal aunt & uncles
sanna, kerry, diana, ruby, grace - maternal aunts
way too many cousins to name, most notable are hakeem (keem), and dayshanae (daya)
has way too many nieces and nephews (cousins kids) with a range of ages between them all
citrus smells
While Wolfy was the only child, he grew up in a tight knit, lower class neighborhood, Allister was never alone. He had plenty of friends from the church, the neighborhood, and from his mothers classes to keep entertained. As much as Patricia wanted another child, Xavier wasn't as happy to expand their brood, or their pocketbook.
He grew up on Patricia's hip, and was very much a momma's boy. (He would be until the day she passed away.) Xavier was a distant father growing up, and Wolfy never really formed any lasting attachment to his father.. She was the first to begin to call him by his favorite nickname, Wolfy, because afterall, he was her little puppy.
He has always struggled in school, between not applying himself and not fully understanding the course work. He was able to coast through middle school and through the first two years of high school before he dropped out. Much to his parent's dismay, and Xavier's punishments; he never stepped foot back in the school again.
Began to hang out with older boys around the neighborhood when he was merely sixteen. His mother advised against it, but Wolfy was stubburn, and forged friendships with them. They introduced Wolfy to marijuana, alcohol, and eventually presciption pills and cocaine. Not only using whenever he could, Wolfy also began selling.
His budding sexuality caused turmoil within his parents home, and after an intense fight with his father; moved out of their home and into his aunts house. He looked after his younger cousins, and she didn't question where he got the money from that he would give to her for groceries, utilities, or whatever might have been needed within the household.
When he was seventeen he left home, Georgia, for good. The tension and pressure put on him by Xavier became too much, who would constantly harass him about missing church, and not being around for his mother. He couch surfed for a few years, still heavily using illegal substances, until he decided to visit a friend in Florida when he was twenty.
Upon deciding to settle in Florida, he lived mostly in pay-by-the-week hotels and on various beaches. They were cheap, and they allowed him to continue to abuse substances, and sell what he could "afford to go without". After a particular run in with the police, Wolfy decided to get himself put together, and clean enough to obtain random odd jobs around town, and with friends.
When he was twenty-three he met a woman on the beach selling crystals and polished gemstones. To say this moment changed him, was a gross understatement. It gave the man something real and tangible to really believe in and trust. After spending so much time under the thumb of his father and the church, it offered Wolfy a sense of salvation he didn't know that he needed.
Began to dabble in "wire wrapping" and really began to express himself creatively and artisically. This also lead to him experimenting with paints, clay, resin, and mixed media. It was a passion he was so proud to share with the world in the form of Wolfy's Healing Corner, an online shop that manifested into popups at local craft fairs, and local charity auctions.
Tragedy struck on Halloween night of 2014, while getting high, Wolfy received a phone call from his aunt, not long after a forwarded call from his father. Patricia had been struck head on by a drunk driver and died almost immediately. The mans life fell apart completely. Returning for her funeral, was the first time that Wolfy had returned home since he left years before.
He was still on the outs with his father, but he had to be there for his family, and for his mothers memory. Opted to not move back to Georgia, after his father's request that he did. Florida wasn't always kind to Wolfy, but the man built a name, family, and business for himself. Living in Jacksonville, Wolfy was able to obtain his GED, come out as openly bisexual, and finally get clean.
He experienced love for the first time, and hand in hand with that, he also experienced heartbreak. But he took it stride, in public at least, and tried his best to move forwards. But life, especially when one's struggling with addiction, has a way of knocking you down. And Wolfy learned that the hard way. Xavier had finally lost his battle to cancer in June of 2018. Wolfy did not take it well.
Wolfy relapsed and fled the comforts of Florida in order to "find himself". Or whatever it was he would tell friends and families admist the day long binges. He somehow ended up in Spokane Washington. Not being able to map together the pieces of his life after burying, Xavier, Wolfy decided his life needed a change. It was here that he checked into a rehabilitation center, and began the hard work of rebuilding himself again.
After several months in an inpatient treatment center, Wolfy was once more called home. This time, there was no emergency nor death - it was love, and it was family. with the few belongings he had, wolfy left washington and returned back to atlanta, georgia to continue his journey of self healing and continuing to stay sober. became much closer to his biological family than he has been in years, and worked hard on repairing and tending to his relationships with them.
Wolfy regularly sees a therapist one time a week, usually mondays, since he gets done at the bakery around ten those mornings. attends aa & na meetings every other friday, at the church his mother attended, and the one his father practiced at. Has learned his lesson, and will seek out more therapy or more meetings when he is feeling stressed, uncomfortable, or like he needs a pick me up.
He's incredibly invested in staying sober this time around, and speaks candidly about his addictions and his actions in the past. He isn't ashamed of what he had to go through in order to be where he is, just wishes it would have been an easier route for those he loves and who love him.
Celebrated his 19 months sobriety, with his family, and welcoming his cousin Daya's baby into the world with the entire family at the hospital. Wolfy, Rashka, and the small amount of stones and crystals that he has left; lives in a small home (he hates the term tiny home) that he rents from a family friend. His life has come together beautifully, and despite the path he had to take to get to where he is - he wouldn't change it for the world.
his cat would definitely disagree.